Give her small writing utensils as this will encourage a three point finger grip. Crayons, short pencils, or break them if you have to in half. also, try those little butterfly clips. If you put one at the bottom you can encourage her to place her pointer finger in the middle of the “butterfly wings” and her thumb outside of the left wing (if she is right handed). Another great trick is using those mini plush pom poms. Give her one while she is using a writing (small) utensil and see if she can grip the pom pom with her last 2-3 fingers (ring and pinky or thumb, ring and pinky) to keep them away from the pencil. So for example, she would hold the pom poms under her middle, ring and pinky finger as she cups those fingers in towards her palm

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My daughter is just 23 months and most of the time is using a regular pencil grip on her writing utensils. I use large crayons (not jumbo but large Crayola crayons) and her stylus is slightly fatter then a pen for tablet educational activities like ABC mouse. I was very surprised myself when she took so quickly and easily to a standard grip. I have raised my nephew from early infancy and although he is on the autism spectrum he is not intellectually disabled and is very high functioning but getting him to hold any wrighting utensils properly was a battle. He was in late kindergarten before he could do it with a grip form on the pencil…

That’s amazing, Amy!
Thanks so much for sharing 🙂
Warmly,
Ashley // Happiness Ambassador